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| As I learn, I try to write down new ideas. This helps me to organize my thoughts and to build a clearer picture of what NLP and SS is all about. It is not the scope of this website to list everything about SS and NLP - just the information I am learning. |
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If you have a
difficult time approaching girls on the street, clubs, shopping
malls etc., talk to girls that have no choice but to answer back
- in grocery stores, video stores, clothing stores, banks, health
food shops etc.
Why it works is simple. They are NOT USED TO FRIENDLY CONVERSATION during the transaction. All you have to do is ask them 'how is your day going?'. Instant rapport because you are not asking anything out of the ordinary, not 'hitting-on' them. There is nothing to be nervous about because you are not doing anything that is going to be construed at 'hitting-on' them. My favourite is glancing at the name tag (most have name tags) and saying: 'How are you, Brenda?' (It is also a proven fact that people love the sound of their own name). They are so surprised that you know their name that they hit a trance state right then and there. Try it and I guarantee it will work. Talking to clerks also lets you get to know them - the next time you see them out, they will definitely remember you - you used THEIR NAME for gods sake! After you ask them about their day, they feel obligated to ask how you are doing too - instant conversation without fear of reprisal! DJ
Decisions
are an important part of SS. As a man, you should be decisive.
Where you go, what you do etc. When women are left to their
own devices, their decisions might not be in your favour. For
example; RJ gives an example of when you are in bed with a girl
and you do not go all the way because you want to respect her
(DO NOT READ THIS AS 'FORCING' OR 'COERCING' THE GIRL - there
are subtle ways of 'going all the way' - NO still means NO and
forced sex is rape!). What ends up happening is the girl feels
(the next morning) that she made right the decision, rather
than you and that her decision was a correct one. She therefore
has to come up with more and more reasons why she choose that
path - bad for you. Instead, if you slept with you, she has
to come up with decisions why she slept with you - good for
you. |