Neg
theory was refined for seduction by a gentleman called 'Mystery'.
It is a great insight into the mind of beautiful women and how they
process information. It works like this:
When a girl is very pretty (beautiful / hot babe [hb])
- ranking on the scale of either 9 or 10 - they are
bombarded with men asking them out. They do not have
to make any effort because their looks have always achieved
for them what they need or want. Men constantly complimenting
them. Guys are endlessly falling all over in an effort
to meet them. Basically, because she is beautiful, men
have put her on a pedastal. Using the 'Mystery Method'
of 'Neg Theory', you take away this PEDASTAL and bring
them back down to your level or even a level lower than
you. I have my own Negs that I have been working on
that deal more with ambiguities in their personalities
- but MM stuff works nethertheless - and works well.
Here are some examples:
That is so cute! You nose wiggles when you talk. Do
it again!
Those are nice nails! Are they real? Oh, well they are
nice anyway.
Here is the breakdown. This
must be said in a very light and off-handed manner.
These are not put-downs. If you are too serious, this
tends to be taken as a put-down rather than a humourous
form of prose. With these simple sentences, you are
taking a girl that is 'Perfect' and telling her that
you don't see it that way. You see her - faults and
all - and it does not impress you. In fact, she is pretty
much the same as the other girls in the bar/mall/cafe.
You do not cowtow to her because she is good looking.
The girl, realizing that her looks are not going to
get her anywhere with you, must try harder to impress
you. SHE MUST MAKE THE EFFORT.
Some
of my ideas of Negs are this:
You are really...unique (get
the tonality right - like you are looking for a 'kind/nice'
word)
You are dressed...different
Your smile is really...compelling
They
need to ask exactly what you mean - for more clarification
- in these instances and therefore it creates an interest.